အတၱာဟိ အတၱေနာ နာေထာ၊ မိမိသည္သာလ်ွင္ မိမိ၏ အားထားရာျဖစ္သည္။

အလုပ္တစ္ခုမွာ တစ္ေယာက္က သူခင္တဲ့သူ၊ သူ အားကိုးေနရတဲ့သူကိုအလုပ္မေျပာင္းနဲ႔ေနာ္ နင္မရွိရင္ ငါတို႔မျဖစ္ဘူးတဲ့၊ ဒါေပမဲ့ ေျပာတဲ့သူကသာတဲ့ေနရာ ရေတာ့ ေျပာင္းသြားတယ္။
ေနာက္ လင္နဲ႔မယား၊ မိန္းမက ကဲြမယ္ ကြာမယ္ေျပာေနတယ္၊ ေယာက်္ားက တကယ္ကြာလိုက္ေတာ့ မိန္းမ က်န္ခဲ့တယ္။
ေက်ာင္းတက္တဲ့ ေက်ာင္းသူႏွစ္ေယာက္ နင္ေက်ာင္းမေျပာင္းနဲ႔ေနာ္ တဲ့၊သူ႔သူငယ္ခ်င္းကို တဖြဖြေျပာတယ္၊ ေျပာတဲ့သူကပဲ အရင္ေနာက္တစ္ေက်ာင္းေျပာင္းသြားတယ္။
မိဘက ငါမရွိရင္ နင္တို႔ ေခြးျဖစ္မယ္ေနာ္၊ ငါမရွိမွ ငါ့အေၾကာင္းသိမယ္ေျပာတယ္ ေသသြားရတာပဲ။
တစ္ေယာက္ကို မွီမယ္လို႔ ေတြးရင္ ကိုယ္မွီမယ့္သူက ခဲြခြာျခင္းမတည္ျမဲျခင္း သေဘာတရားေတြက အျမဲစိုးမိုးလို႔ေနတယ္ ဒါေတြက ဘုရားေဟာလည္းဟုတ္တယ္ ကိုယ္ရွာေဖြရင္လည္း ေတြ႕မွာပဲ၊ ဒါဟာသဘာဝတရားပဲ သဘာဝထဲမွာပဲေနၾကရေအာင္၊။
အမွန္တရားဟာ ခါးတယ္ ရင္ဆိုင္ဖို႔ ခက္တယ္၊ ရင္ဆိုင္ၾကရတယ္ ေရွာင္လို႔မရဘူး၊အရက္ေသာက္တဲ့သူဟာ အရက္ကို ခ်ိဳလို႔ ေသာက္တာလားေမးၾကည့္ အဲလိုပဲ၊လက္မခံခ်င္ပဲ တြန္႔ေနမယ့္အစား လက္ခံလိုက္တာက ၾကိဳက္လိုက္တာကကိုယ့္အတြက္သက္သာတယ္။ေအာ္ … သဘာဝတရားေတြပဲကိုး။
အထက္ပါ ေျပာဆုိမွူမ်ားကုိ လက္မခံခ်င္သကဲ့သုိ႔ရွိေပလိမ္မည္။အကၽြႏု္ကုိယ္တုိင္းလည္း လက္မခံခ်င္ေပ၊ အဘယ္ေၾကာင့္ လက္မခံခ်င္သနည္းဟု၊စစ္ေဆးၾကည့္ေသာ္ ဤကဲ့သို႔ ခြဲခြါရမည္ကို ေၾကာက္ေသာေၾကာင့္ဟုေျဖရေပလိမ့္မည္။
မွန္ေပသည္ လူတိုင္းလူတိုင္းသည္ မိမိတုိ႔ ခ်စ္ခင္ျမတ္ႏိုးသူမ်ား၊အားကုိးအားထား ျပဳရသူမ်ားနဲ ့၊ မခြဲခြါလိုၾကေပ။ သို႔ေသာ္ အႏွစ္တရာမၾကာေသာ အလြန္တိုေတာင့္လွေသာ ကာလအတြင္းဝယ္ မလြဲမေသြ ခြဲခြါၾကရမည္ျဖစ္၏။
သူမရွိလွ်င္ မျဖစ္ဟု အားကုိးအားထား ျပဳေနခဲ့ရသူမ်ားသည္၄င္း၊ ငါမရွိလွ်င္မျဖစ္ဟု အထင္ၾကီးေနခဲ့သူမ်ားသည္၄င္း၊ မည္၍ မည္မ်ွမ်က္ကြယ္ျပဳသြားၾကေလသနည္း ဟူသည္မွာ ေရတြက္၍ မကုန္ႏုိင္ေတာ့ေပ။
ငါမရွိလွ်င္ လုံးဝမျဖစ္ဟု ထင္မိခဲ့ေသာ ျပင္သစ္ဧကရစ္ နပုိလီယံဘုိနာပတ္သည္၄င္း၊ အေမရိကန္သမၼတ ေအပရာဟင္လင္ကြန္းသည္၄င္း၊သဲကႏၱာရေျမေခြးဟု တင္စားခံခဲ့ရေသာ စစ္သူၾကီးရႊမ္းမဲ သည္၄င္း၊မဟာမိတ္တပ္တုိ႔၏ ဦးစီးဦးေဆာင္ စစ္သူၾကီးေမာင့္ဂုိမာရီသည္၄င္း၊ထိုကဲ့သုိ႔ေသာ အားေကာင္းေမာင္းသန္ ေယာက္်ားၾကီးမ်ားသည္၄င္း၊ အသီးသိးမ်က္ကြယ္ျပဳသြား ခဲ့ၾကေလျပီ။ သုိ႔ေသာ္= သူတုိ႔မရွိေတာ့ေသာ္လည္းျဖစ္ေနၾကသည္သာ။
အမွန္မွာမူ= အားၾကီးသူတုိ႔အေပၚ အားကိုးတတ္ေသာ အားငယ္သူ တုိ႔၏အယူအဆသည္၄င္း၊ အားငယ္သူတုိ႔အား အားကုိးမွူကို ေပးတတ္ေသာ အားၾကီးသူတုိ႔၏အယူအဆသည္၄င္း၊ မိမိတို႔၏ စြဲလမ္းမွဳတည္းဟူေသာ ဥပါဒါန္သာျဖစ္ေလသည္။
အခ်ဳပ္အားျဖင္ဆိုရပါမူ။ ။ အားၾကီးသူကုိ အားကုိးေနရ ျခင္းဟုဆိုအပ္ေသာဒုကၡ၊ အားငယ္သူကို စိတ္မခ်ျခင္းဟု ဆိုအပ္ေသာ ဒုကၡ၊ စသည္ စည္ဒုကၡအဖုံဖုံတို႔သည္၊ တစ္ပါးသူတို႔အေပၚ မိမိ၏ စြဲလမ္းမွူ ဥပါဒါန္ေၾကာင့္ဒုကၡေရာက္ေနၾကျခင္းသာလ်ွင္ ျဖစ္ေလ၏။
အတၱာဟိ အတၱေနာ နာေထာ၊ မိမိသည္သာလ်ွင္ မိမိ၏ အားထားရာျဖစ္သည္။
မိတ္ေဆြတစ္ဦး၏ ေျပာျပျခင္းမ်ားအား ျပန္လည္ တင္ျပျခင္းျဖစ္ပါသည္။
Posted by ရြာဦးေက်ာင္း ဆရာေတာ္

No one can depend on another except SELF!!!

* At a work; one told her coworker who she friends and depends "Don't move to other job! If you are not here, we are not OK." However, the one who told that words moved to another job which is better first.

* A couple; the wife was always talking about divorce. However, she was left alone because her husband divorced her first, finally.

* Two students who love each other; one told another "Don't move to other school!" She said that several times. However, the one who said that moved to other school first.

* If we think to depend on someone, that someone always has things that are leaving and unstableness which overwhelms him. These things are naturally happening all the time around us.

* The truth is bitter and hard to face. However, we have to face; we can't avoid!

* It's true that everyone doesn't want to be apart from their loved ones or the ones they depend on. However, we can't avoid the fact that we have to be apart anyway definitely in one day which is much shorter than 100 years!!!

* There are countless number of people who depended on someone or who was too worried for someone died.

* The trouble that weakers have to depend on strongers or the trouble that strongers have to worry about weakers gets more troubled because of self's attachment!

** Therefore, try to stay in detachment and depend only on self. No one can depend on another except self.

[Reference: poorly translated from a forward mail]

Story of Eagle (Posted By Moe Kyi Phyu in www.forverfriends.ning.com)

ဒီစာေလးကို ထံုးစံအတိုင္း forward email ကေန ဒီေန.ရလိုက္ပါတယ္။ ဖတ္ၾကည့္ရင္းနဲ. အားလံုးနဲ. ကိုက္ညီမယ္ထင္လို. တင္ေပးလိုက္တာပါ။ စာေရးသူက ပန္းအိမိုးပါတဲ့။ ဘယ္မွာပါမွန္းလည္းမသိသလုိ စာေရးသူဆီက ခြင့္ေတာင္းဖို.လည္း ဆက္သြယ္စရာ လည္းမသိျပန္ဆိုေတာ့ က်ေနာ့ရဲ့ကူးယူျဖန္.ေ၀မွုကို စာေရးသူသိရင္ခြင့္လႊတ္တန္ေကာင္းပါတယ္။ သိပ္ေကာင္းတဲ့စာေလးဆိုတာ အားလံုးသိေစခ်င္လို.ပါဗ်ာ။ဒီေန. သူငယ္ခ်င္းတစ္ေယာက္ရဲ့ ရံုးခန္းမွာ video clip ေလးတစ္ခု ၾကည့္ခဲ့ရတယ္။The Story Of Eagle “လင္းယုန္ပံုျပင္” တဲ့။လင္းယုန္တစ္ေကာင္ဟာ သက္တမ္း ၇၈ႏွစ္၀န္းက်င္အသက္ရွင္ေနထိုင္ႏုိင္ပါတယ္။ လင္းယုန္ဆိုတာ ေကာင္းကင္မွာ သတၱိရွိရွိ၊ အင္အားျပင္းျပင္းပ်ံႏိုင္တဲ့ ငွက္မ်ိဳး။လင္းယုန္တစ္ေကာင္ဟာ သက္တမ္း ၄၀ ေလာက္ရလာတဲ့အခါမွာ အဲဒီလင္းယုန္ဟာ ေကာင္းေကာင္းမပ်ံႏိုင္ေတာ့ဘူး။ ဘာေၾကာင့္လဲဆိုေတာ့ သူ.ရဲ့ ႏွုတ္သီးဟာ ေကြးလာျပီး ရင္ဘတ္ထိေအာင္ စိုက္က်လာတယ္။ အေတာင္ပံေတြဟာ မခတ္ႏုိင္ေတာ့ေလာက္ေအာင္ ေလးလာတယ္။ လက္သည္းေတြဟာ ရွည္လ်ားလာျပီး အစာရွာဖို.ခက္လာမယ္။ အဲဒါဟာ လင္းယုန္တိုင္းပါပဲ။အဲဒီမွာ ေရြးခ်ယ္စရာ လမ္းနွစ္ခု ရွိတယ္။တစ္ခုက ေကာင္းေကာင္းမပ်ံေတာ့ဘဲ ေသပြဲ၀င္ရမယ့္ ေန.ကိုထိုင္ေစာင့္ဖို.။ေနာက္တစ္ခုကေတာ့ က်န္တဲ့သက္တမ္း ၃၈ႏွစ္ကို ေကာင္းစြာပ်ံသန္းရင္း အသက္ဆက္ရွင္သန္ဖို.။ အဲဆက္ျပီးရွင္သန္ဖို.ဆိုရင္ေတာ့ ျဖစ္စဥ္တစ္ခုကို အျဖစ္မေနျဖတ္သန္းရမယ္။ အဲဒီျဖစ္စဥ္နာမည္က Pain and Difficulites “နာက်င္မွု နဲ႕ အခက္အခဲ” ။ပထမဆံုး ေက်ာက္ေတာင္ထိပ္ၾကီးေတြေပၚကို ပ်ံသန္းသြားရမယ္။ အဲဒီ ေက်ာက္ေတာင္ထိပ္ေပၚေရာက္ရင္ ႏွုတ္သီးကို ေက်ာက္သားနဲ.ဖဲ့ခ်ိဳးပစ္ရမယ္။ တစ္ခါႏွုတ္သီး နဲ. လက္သည္းေတြကို ဆြဲခြာျပီးႏွုတ္ပစ္ရမယ္။ဘယ္ေလာက္မ်ားနာက်င္လိုက္ေလမလဲ။ ဘယ္ေလာက္မ်ား ခက္ခဲလိုက္ေလမလဲ။ ကိုယ္တိုင္လုပ္ရတာ။ အသက္ရွင္ခ်င္သူကိုယ္တိုင္လုပ္မွရတာမ်ိဳးပါ။ျပီးရင္ေတာ့ ရက္အနည္းငယ္ၾကာၾကာ ေတာင္ထိပ္မွာေနျပီး လက္သည္းေတြ ႏွုတ္သီးေတြ ျပန္အသစ္ထြက္ျပီး အသားက်လာတဲ့ အထိေစာင့္ရတယ္။ ျပီးရင္ေတာ့ အဲဒီလင္းယုန္ဟာ က်န္တဲ့သက္တမ္း ၃၈ ႏွစ္ကို ရွင္သန္ခြင့္ရသြားျပီ။ဒုတိယလမ္းကို ေရြးခ်ယ္ၾကတဲ့လင္းယုန္ေတြအမ်ားၾကီးရွိပါတယ္။ ကြ်န္မတို.ကလူသားေတြပါ။ ငွက္ေတြေတာင္ အက်ိဳးစီးပြား တစ္ခုအတြက္နာက်င္မွုနဲ႕ အခက္အခဲဆိုတဲ့ျဖစ္စဥ္တစ္ခုကို ေက်ာ္ႏိုင္ေသးရင္ ကြ်န္မတို.လို လူသားေတြက ရည္မွန္းခ်က္ပန္းတိုင္ေတြ အေရာက္သြားဖို. ဆက္လက္ရွင္သန္ေနဖို. “နာက်င္မွု နဲ႕ အခက္အခဲ” ဆိုတဲ့ျဖစ္စဥ္ကို မျဖစ္မေန ရင္ဆိုင္ရဲရမွာေပါ့။ကြ်န္မတို. လိုခ်င္တဲ့ပန္းတိ္ုင္ကို အေရာက္သြားဖို. တစ္ခါတစ္ရံ ကြ်န္မတို.တစ္ေတြ အရမ္းနာက်င္ ၾကရမယ္။ အခက္အခဲေတြ မေရမတြက္ႏိုင္ေအာင္ေက်ာ္ျဖတ္ၾကရမယ္။ ကြ်န္မတို. ေက်ာ္ျဖတ္ၾကမယ္ေလ။ အဲဒီ “နာက်င္မွု နဲ႕ အခက္အခဲ” ဆိုတဲ့ျဖစ္စဥ္ကို ကြ်န္မတို. အတူတူျဖတ္ေက်ာ္ၾကရေအာင္ပါေလ။ဘာလို႕လဲဆိုေတာ့ ကြ်န္မတို႕အားလံုးက်န္တဲ့သက္တမ္းေတြကို အဓိပၸာယ္ရွိရွိ ရွင္သန္ရဦးမွာမို႕ေပါ့။ ကြ်န္မတို႕ေတြဟာ လက္ေျမွာက္အရွံဳးေပးၾကမယ့္သူေတြ မဟုတ္လို႕ေပါ့။ျပီးခဲ့တဲ့အပတ္က စိတ္ဓာတ္အၾကီးအက်ယ္က်ေနတဲ့ က်ေနာ္ ဒီစာကိုဖတ္ျပီးခြန္အားေတြရရွိခဲ့ပါတယ္။ က်ေနာ့မိတ္ေဆြေတြ အားလံုးပဲ က်ေနာ့လို ခြန္အား ရရွိပါေစဗ်ာ။ က်ေနာ္စိတ္ဓာတ္က်ရင္ အျမဲဖတ္တဲ့ စာအုပ္သံုး အုပ္ရွိပါတယ္။ တစ္အုပ္က ဘာသာျပန္ ပါပီလြန္နဲ႕ဗင္ကို ျဖစ္ျပီး တစ္အုပ္က ဘာသာေရး တစ္ေယာက္တည္းေပ်ာ္ေအာင္ေန နဲ. ေနာက္တစ္အုပ္က ျမၾကာျဖဴ တို႕ပါပဲ။

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The Appointment in Samarra

Death speaks: There was a merchant in Baghdad who sent his servant to market to buy provisions and in a little while the servant came back, white and trembling, and said, Master, just now when I saw in the marketplace I was jostled by a woman in the crowd and when I turned I saw it was Death that jostled me. She looked at me and made a threatening gesture; now, lend me your horse, and I will ride away from this city and avoid my fate. I will go to Samarra and there Death will not find me. The merchant lent him his horse, and the servant mounted it, and he dug his spurs in its flanks and as fast as the horse could gallop he went. Then the merchant went down to the marketplace and he saw me standing in the crowd and he came to me and said, Why did you make a threatening gesture to my servant when you saw him this morning? That was not a threatening gesture, I said, it was only a start of surprise. I was astonished to see him Baghdad, for I had an appointment with him tonight in Samarra.

[Reference: This story is written by "W.Somersete Maugham," and from the book "Literature: An Introduction To Fiction, Poetry, Drama, And Writing, fifth edition"]
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``` I love the theme of the story: we can never avoid or hide from Death. However the modern medical technologies come out times after times, we can never postpone our date of death. Karma already arranged our death since we were born. All of us are living alive without knowing three things: when we die, where we die and how we die.

Anyway

People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered.
~ Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
~ Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
~ Succeed anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
~ Be honest and frank anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
~ Do good anyway.
The biggest people with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest people with the smallest minds.
~ Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
~ Fight for some underdogs anyway.
What you spent years building may be destroyed overnight.
~ Build anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you will get kicked in the teeth.
~ Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You will be the best!

Shared from Phay Myint's Book

Installing Programs ...

[Reference: MyanmarIT]

Looping!

[Reference: MyanmarIT]

Taste of "Giving"

Paul got a car from his bigger brother as a Christmas present. On Christmas Eve, he saw a boy who was very interested in his bright new car and looking around the car when he came out from his office. The boy was not satisfied yet only by looking at the car and he again asked Paul that:

"Is this your car?" Paul nodded his head and "Yeah, my bigger brother gave it to me as a Christmas gift." and then the boy was very surprised.
"Oh, your bigger brother gave it to you free.. right? So, you don't have to spend even a cent?" and then the boy paused his sentence "If I can pray......." Paul was thinking what the boy will pray if he could pray. For sure, he will pray that he wants to get a bigger brother like his brother.

However, Paul was shocked when he heard the word from the boy. The boy said: "I really want to be a brother like your brother."
Paul gazed surprisingly at the boy. Then, he didn't know what happened with him and offered the boy to give a ride around the city. The boy accepted his offer happily. After a while Paul was driving around the city, the boy asked Paul to drive to his house. Paul was thinking why the boy's eyes were bright and enthusiastic; he thought the boy might want to boast his neighbors that he rides a new bright car. But, Paul was wrong again.

The boy asked him to stop in front of a house. He went up the house from the stairs. After a while, he came down slowly again with a small boy. The small boy who is his younger brother was asked to sit on stairs because he can't walk well. Then, the boy hugged tightly his younger brother and said enthusiastically:
"See? brother, This is the car that i said to you upstairs. He was given this car as a present from his bigger brother. He didn't have to spend a cent. Later, I will also buy this kind of car for you as a present. At that time, you can look around the beautiful decorations and stuff at Christmas showrooms."

Then, Paul came out from his car and took these two brothers into his car and visited around the city with his new bright car. He will never forget this experience with these two boys in his life. Especially, Paul got a lesson to learn. That is:

The happiness due to "giving" is much much more pleasant and peaceful than the taste of "getting."


[Reference: Chicken Soup for the Soul]

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Reference: MyanmarIT